Centuries ago, a famous Greek thinker said: " Unique the permanent thing is cambio". We must prepare to our children for a world in constant change, the world of the future, neither the one of our parents, nor ours. In this present world the determinant to prevail will be the character, not the knowledge. To have weather to leave the failures suitably and to make of them a challenge instead of a tragedy. That will be what the personnel selectors look for.
For the independent workers, it must be a self-imposed requirement. A son forges his character if he perceives the authority of his parents. With authority presence, the children and young people also will act with authority to solve their own problems. Nevertheless, in the absence of authority they will be weak of character and they will act by impulses, with the consequent problems of adaptation. What happens if there is excess of authority? , in fact always is better to lack her. Then we can ask Which is the limit? There is one regulates practice easily and identifiable " The authority does not have humillar".
It is very important to remember that what is the boy today, he will be the adult the morning. If we want that they do not suffer, then we must prepare them to suffer. If we avoided all suffering to him When they will learn and how they will grow? Instead of to solve all problems, it is necessary to help them to that they solve they themselves. " We must teach to them to use the cane to fish instead of to give peces" them; Nobody obtains successful and lasting goals without a little suffering. In order to include/understand this coarse one with thinking about the outstanding sportsmen of high performance, in which it means to arrive at the Olympic Games and to obtain an outstanding place.